Dating 2 guys at
So you go on another date with an equally amazing man. However, it is important to keep in mind that you have not committed to any one of them yet – so stop beating yourself up too much regarding the issue. Be happy that you have two guys who make you feel special – you have the power of choosing. You tell yourself to take it easy – you try not to become too obsessed with this one guy. After all, you have not made it official with either of them and so there is no question of being exclusive to each other. 1) Manage your guilt: Unless you are VERY open minded and have been in open relationships before, you’ll feel at least some degree of guilt, especially if you are sleeping with both of them.No, but it is possible and you can enjoy the experience if you follow a few simple rule 1) Be honest with your dates about what you’re doing.You don’t have to tell one of your dates the name, address, and physical stats of the other person you’re seeing.So it is best to decide yourself rather than waiting for things to happen. If it happens during a casual conversation, you can simply say that you said the name of a colleague at work whom you have to interact a lot.Or you can lie that you blurted out your brother’s or best friend’s name.The matter will not solve itself unless one of the guys flies off with another bird.As ironical as it may sound – this might leave you hurt.
Be fair to yourself until you are ready to settle down with “the one.” But, at the same time, if you’re going to date multiple men casually, be fair to them too.5) Know how both the guys feel about you: You can deduce their true feelings from their actions and words.If a guy wants to meet up just for drinks and love-making, he is not really serious.You’re not paranoid if you think men are most drawn to you when you’re taken.If you’re seeing one guy who makes you feel happy and confident, other men are attracted to that happiness and confidence.